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How to help a wife / husband heal after multiple cheating – Counseling in Dubai

Here are my top tips for serial cheating or serial lying include –


  1. Work with the subconscious mind – In order to make long-lasting changes we need to get to the root of the issues which are embedded in our subconscious mind and influences our behavioural patterns, holds our emotional triggers, and controls our thoughts. Talking through problems will not help and only reinforces the issue. Real change happens on a deeper level and this involves tapping into the subconscious mind and reframing past experiences, releasing negative thoughts that lead to hurtful behaviours and boost their confidence and self-love.
  2. Be willing to go deep and make a change – It can be easy to stay in the same vicious cycle of lying and cheating and hurting loved ones, however, real happiness will require real change. Being willing to make changes means giving yourself hope that you can be truly happy, and you no longer need to be a prisoner of your past.
  3. Understand the importance of rebuilding trust – A lot of clients that come to me for individual counseling in Dubai, need support with neglect to understand the importance of trust and they put little thought into rebuilding broken trust. It is so helpful to include partners in the healing journey so they can see the effort their loved one is putting in to change and this helps to regain the trust. Be true to your word – that is one of the best ways of rebuilding trust.
  4. Have a strategy in place to ensure you do not fall back into bad habits – I do hypnotherapy in Dubai and online for this. This will only work once you have understood your thought patterns and addressed your emotional triggers. This understanding will help you to identify what actions you need to take to avoid falling into the same patterns.
  5. Understand the need to talk it through – When we hurt someone we love, it can be hard for us to realise the damage or pain we have caused them, however, for true healing and repairing to happen you must be able to have those difficult conversations where you are taken out of your comfort zone and need to be brutally honest. Keep apologizing and reassuring your partner that you want to make the changes and acknowledge the pain you have caused, so that they can see your authenticity in moving forward. If you need any help with individual counseling dubai or couples counseling dubai.
  6. Be patient – There are no shortcuts to healing and it is important to remember, just as much as you are working on yourself, you need to support one another in working through this life changing experience. Be patient with one another and remind yourselves that you are both working to reconnect and rebuild a love stronger than ever before.
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I know this can be so tough on a person who, as a result of their past experiences, has become someone who has or is hurting a loved one, it can make you feel depressed and even have suicidal thoughts, however, it is so important to get the support you need professionally as it can cause anger and resentment from your partner if they are expected to help you when they need to heal also.  Do get help if you recognize you need more support whether counseling in dubai, hypnotherapy in dubai or life coaching dubai.


Nicola Beer is a depression treatment in Dubai specialist, anxiety therapist Dubai and individual counseling in Dubai.

Be loving and kind to one another and give a healthy amount of space as and when needed so that you can repair the foundations of your relationship, stronger, together.

Mihaela BotnariMihaela Botnari
12:54 17 Mar 23
Thank you for destroying my relationship. My partner reached out for support and you advised him that there is nothing for him to heal and that he should send his girlfriend for therapy, like this is your place to tell him. I’ve been through therapy myself and I know how to make the difference between a good therapist and someone who just wants to get more money, and the second seems to definitely be your purpose!
Helen HHelen H
19:13 10 Nov 22
Nicola’s support and advice proved invaluable when my marriage was struggling. Over a series of meetings (online and fact to face, to suit our needs), Nicola helped steer us through a very difficult time. She was always calm, neutral and never made us feel like we had failed or had ‘messed up’. Nicola has a wealth of experience and keeps up with current research, but has a very unique approach to getting you back on track. With regular support materials and just being there, she helped us realise that our relationship could go on; by making us look at ourselves and helping us consider the tools we needed to move forwards. I can honestly say that I don’t think our marriage would have survived such a difficult time without Nicola’s expertise. I often listen to Nicola’s podcasts on Spotify when I’m needing a bit of extra support. Thank you, Nicola
Justin LossJustin Loss
13:23 30 Jun 22
Nicola has been a massive help. I had tried traditional counseling and it had seemed to be moving me further away from what I wanted. After listening to several of Nicola's podcasts I decided to reach out to her. The discovery call was enlightening and she described a process that was more focused on creating a better future vs reliving the pass. From there I went through her Breakthrough Program...All I can say is Wow! Her program and guidance has quickly changed my mindset which has in turn improved all my relationships and overall stress level. I highly recommend working with Nicola and can't thank her enough for her help and care.
Ciaran CarlisleCiaran Carlisle
22:16 23 Jan 22
My partner and I spent a number of sessions with Nicola discussing our relationship difficulties, both together and one on one sessions. She has been so good to talk to - incredibly helpful and understanding with our problems.My partner and I have come out of this with a better understanding and move love for each other. Nicola has taught us many techniques to use in situations were we feel at odds which has been fantastic. We would recommend Nicola 100% for relationship advice.Thank you so much again.
Loida Delgado-PerezLoida Delgado-Perez
03:09 22 Jan 22
Nicola's marriage counselling have been life changing for both my partner and I. The learnings have been exponential and have transform us individually and as a couple. We reached out to Nicola at the lowest point of our relationship and about to break apart. Her compassionate and smart yet practical advice and exercises transform us in such a way that we are now at the best we've ever been personally and as a couple.As a result we've decided to get married and book Nicola every year for a couple's check in! I couldn't recommend her sessions more to anyone feeling stuck and wanting to be in a better place. Best investment of time, money and effort EVER. Thank you Nicola, you are an inspiration to me and many others :)
Christianne KaddoumChristianne Kaddoum
17:19 20 Oct 21
The hours I’ve spent working with Nicola have been the most valuable of my life.I now feel equipped to do things differently. It’s been the most liberating and empowering experience and I’ve learnt things that will stay with me forever.Through the excellent help from Nicola, it is now possible for me to have a different and healthier approach to various situations.She has professionally helped me to consider my perspectives in a way I hadn’t before.I can finally begin to reframe my life experience and see them in a whole new light.Thanks Nicola!