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Before I started working with Nicola … I was not happy about this area of my life; Was going through a separation and divorce. Was a daily struggle to stay focused on my career, keeping me head up while performing my daily tasks at work.

The most difficult part was… Feeling like I was a failure, like I was alone and unable to keep a marriage or relationship together.

If I had continued down the path I was on…(what would have happened?) I would have never been happy, satisfied and I would have continued to sacrifice my own happiness for someone else’s. Also believing that I was the only one in the world going through these types of feeling and struggles.

The thing about Nicola is that she is… Every time I had an issue, felt alone, needed advice and just needed some to listen she was there. It seemed like she already knew what I was going to say or ask, she was always a few steps ahead of me waiting to help me through what I was going through. Similar to a parent or leader that is there in front of you with their hand out willing to walk with you through tough times.

My biggest insight or lesson learned during our coaching was… Make sure that communication with my girlfriend or wife was the most important thing. Also treating your relationship like your career, as in you do a lot of on the job training to be successful the same goes for a successful relationship. You have to make time for each other, do things together and make each other a priority.

And this was valuable because… To be successful in life it takes work, same goes with any relationship.

If I had to measure the results I’d say I gained…(closer relationship, less conflict, peace of mind, focus, confidence, revenue increase) I feel I’ve really realized you have to focus on what’s important, building the foundation to a strong relationship, better communication, making sure you treat them like you want to be treated. With everything going on around you, just stop and take time fro each other like the saying goes “Stop and smell the roses”.

I’d recommend Nicola to anyone having any type of issues in their relationship, also if you had troubled relationship, troubled past or childhood just anything that causes you daily or weekly struggles.

I’ve never been through relationship counseling before, and even after working with Nicola still don’t feel like I have. It didn’t feel like marriage or relationship counseling, I always felt like I had a personal development coach or mentor. When we talked it was mostly about what I wanted to do with myself, my life, what made me happy, where I saw myself in 3-10 years. I think that my experience was better than a normal couples therapy that I hear about and friends have been through.

Anything else you’d like Nicola to know? I’m thankful I found your podcasts when I was at a very low point in my life and made the decision to reach out for help. I know I’m a strong individual but I also know when I need some extra help. Thank you for being so nice and helpful when I needed it most.

Mila TutorMila Tutor
07:10 25 Mar 23
I have worked with Nicola for some time now and have found her to be compassionate, kind, and extremely helpful. She has helped me a lot.
Riti SajitRiti Sajit
06:58 25 Mar 23
Nicola is a wonderful human 🤍 Thank you for helping me through my difficult time.Still living by your words and advice. I would definitely recommend anyone needing relationship counseling to try Nicola :)
Mihaela BotnariMihaela Botnari
12:54 17 Mar 23
Thank you for destroying my relationship. My partner reached out for support and you advised him that there is nothing for him to heal and that he should send his girlfriend for therapy, like this is your place to tell him. I’ve been through therapy myself and I know how to make the difference between a good therapist and someone who just wants to get more money, and the second seems to definitely be your purpose!
Helen HHelen H
19:13 10 Nov 22
Nicola’s support and advice proved invaluable when my marriage was struggling. Over a series of meetings (online and fact to face, to suit our needs), Nicola helped steer us through a very difficult time. She was always calm, neutral and never made us feel like we had failed or had ‘messed up’. Nicola has a wealth of experience and keeps up with current research, but has a very unique approach to getting you back on track. With regular support materials and just being there, she helped us realise that our relationship could go on; by making us look at ourselves and helping us consider the tools we needed to move forwards. I can honestly say that I don’t think our marriage would have survived such a difficult time without Nicola’s expertise. I often listen to Nicola’s podcasts on Spotify when I’m needing a bit of extra support. Thank you, Nicola
Justin LossJustin Loss
13:23 30 Jun 22
Nicola has been a massive help. I had tried traditional counseling and it had seemed to be moving me further away from what I wanted. After listening to several of Nicola's podcasts I decided to reach out to her. The discovery call was enlightening and she described a process that was more focused on creating a better future vs reliving the pass. From there I went through her Breakthrough Program...All I can say is Wow! Her program and guidance has quickly changed my mindset which has in turn improved all my relationships and overall stress level. I highly recommend working with Nicola and can't thank her enough for her help and care.
Ciaran CarlisleCiaran Carlisle
22:16 23 Jan 22
My partner and I spent a number of sessions with Nicola discussing our relationship difficulties, both together and one on one sessions. She has been so good to talk to - incredibly helpful and understanding with our problems.My partner and I have come out of this with a better understanding and move love for each other. Nicola has taught us many techniques to use in situations were we feel at odds which has been fantastic. We would recommend Nicola 100% for relationship advice.Thank you so much again.
Loida Delgado-PerezLoida Delgado-Perez
03:09 22 Jan 22
Nicola's marriage counselling have been life changing for both my partner and I. The learnings have been exponential and have transform us individually and as a couple. We reached out to Nicola at the lowest point of our relationship and about to break apart. Her compassionate and smart yet practical advice and exercises transform us in such a way that we are now at the best we've ever been personally and as a couple.As a result we've decided to get married and book Nicola every year for a couple's check in! I couldn't recommend her sessions more to anyone feeling stuck and wanting to be in a better place. Best investment of time, money and effort EVER. Thank you Nicola, you are an inspiration to me and many others :)
Christianne KaddoumChristianne Kaddoum
17:19 20 Oct 21
The hours I’ve spent working with Nicola have been the most valuable of my life.I now feel equipped to do things differently. It’s been the most liberating and empowering experience and I’ve learnt things that will stay with me forever.Through the excellent help from Nicola, it is now possible for me to have a different and healthier approach to various situations.She has professionally helped me to consider my perspectives in a way I hadn’t before.I can finally begin to reframe my life experience and see them in a whole new light.Thanks Nicola!